Big Decisions
Moving for a job: the costs that are not in the offer
A relocation is priced in salary and paid for in transaction costs, lost network and a partner's career.
Moving, a career change, a career break — priced properly before committing.
21 articles · updated August 11, 2026 · page 1 of 2

Big Decisions
The lost salary is the obvious number. The pension gap and the re-entry discount are the ones that surprise people.
Big Decisions
A relocation is priced in salary and paid for in transaction costs, lost network and a partner's career.
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The comparison looks like a rate calculation and is mostly a risk and certainty decision.
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An inheritance or a bonus arrives with pressure attached. The first correct action is usually to do nothing.
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A lump sum arrives at the same moment as a loss of income, which is exactly the combination that produces bad decisions.
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A voluntary pay cut is a legitimate decision. It becomes a bad one when the size and duration of the gap were never calculated.
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The question is not whether the idea is good. It is how many months the household can run without your salary and what happens at…
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Moving country resets your pension record, your entitlements and often your professional credentials. Most of it is invisible on…
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Both produce time away from work. Only one of them keeps the job, the contributions and the way you are seen on your return.
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Household decisions get made under one set of conditions and then run on autopilot long after the conditions have changed.
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It is a caring decision with a financial structure, and the households that do it well have priced the whole thing rather than the…
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Beyond a certain point, more analysis stops improving the choice and starts functioning as a way of avoiding it.